We had to take my oldest daughter in for a vaccination today, so while we were there, I decided to ask if my doctor could come up with a new surgical consult for me, since the previous surgeon wasn't even returning my calls. Would you believe it? About one hour after we left, the surgeon called me...
The diagnosis is that there's no definite fracture in any of the ribs, although he does believe one of the ribs is causing the popping that I can feel and hear coming from my chest. Unfortunately, there is no way to tell which rib it is, so he can't go in and remove it, for fear of removing the wrong rib. He did say that there is fracturing in the cartilage on that side of my rib cage, but there's no way to surgically fix it...so I'm stuck with being on neural suppressants...probably for the rest of my life...
Wednesday, January 23, 2013
Sunday, January 20, 2013
Back from Ohio
Getting to my grandmother's funeral was quite the whirlwind tour. We left Wednesday just before noon and got into McConelsville, Ohio on Friday morning. We were there for about eight hours...just long enough for me to spend some time with my mom and brother before we went to the funeral. After that it was a very brief family get together, and then we were back on the road because Rebecca had to be at work on Sunday morning at 6 am. We got back to Denver about 9:30 on Saturday night. We basically covered over 2700 miles in about 80 hours. All of this with an 11 year old, a 7 year old, and a 2 year old along for the ride. The most impressive part of this quick trip was the fact that I don't drive, so my absolutely amazing and wonderful wife did all of the driving on her own! Did I mention that she was amazing and wonderful?
The actual funeral was well done. My grandmother was a fairly religious woman, so a minister oversaw the proceedings, and although I didn't necessarily agree with a lot of the religious stuff he had to say, it was nice that he actually knew my grandmother. A lot of times, you go to these things and the person conducting the funeral is just reading from notes that have been made by the family, but he used to drop my grandmother's house to visit, and he actually had a lot of us smiling and laughing about some of the things she would say or do. Some people may think that laughter and happiness shouldn't be a part of a funeral, but I personally believe that it should be a celebration of the person's life...and there was a lot to celebrate about my grandmother. She was a very kind person, and a lot of people commented that she was "everyone's" grandmother. Everyone knew they could go to her for anything they needed, and if anyone ever wanted to just stop and visit, she always made them welcome.
Now that I've written this, I think I need some more rest, as I'm still exhausted, and it's back to work at 6 am for me tomorrow.
And by the way...did I mention that my wife is absolutely amazing and wonderful?
Well...SHE IS!
The actual funeral was well done. My grandmother was a fairly religious woman, so a minister oversaw the proceedings, and although I didn't necessarily agree with a lot of the religious stuff he had to say, it was nice that he actually knew my grandmother. A lot of times, you go to these things and the person conducting the funeral is just reading from notes that have been made by the family, but he used to drop my grandmother's house to visit, and he actually had a lot of us smiling and laughing about some of the things she would say or do. Some people may think that laughter and happiness shouldn't be a part of a funeral, but I personally believe that it should be a celebration of the person's life...and there was a lot to celebrate about my grandmother. She was a very kind person, and a lot of people commented that she was "everyone's" grandmother. Everyone knew they could go to her for anything they needed, and if anyone ever wanted to just stop and visit, she always made them welcome.
Now that I've written this, I think I need some more rest, as I'm still exhausted, and it's back to work at 6 am for me tomorrow.
And by the way...did I mention that my wife is absolutely amazing and wonderful?
Well...SHE IS!
Tuesday, January 15, 2013
Gertrude Hambil
Earlier today, my grandmother, Gertrude Hambil, passed away. She was the last of my grandparents, and I can honestly say that next to my parents, she was most responsible for raising me and turning me into the person that I am today.
The last few years have been hard on her, and we all thought we were going to lose her a long time ago, but she had a lot of fight in her, and she held on. I never got a chance to see her in those final years, and maybe that was for the best, as I guess she wasn't really the same person. Age does horrible things to the human mind.
I have so many wonderful memories of her. Sitting on her lap while going for rides in the country, working in the garden (especially me planting pumpkins), the smell of her bacon in the morning, and so many more. When my mom first called me today, we both agreed that she'd had a good life, and for the most part, a happy life...not too many people can really say that, but she did.
The world seems a little emptier today, and she will truly be missed.
The last few years have been hard on her, and we all thought we were going to lose her a long time ago, but she had a lot of fight in her, and she held on. I never got a chance to see her in those final years, and maybe that was for the best, as I guess she wasn't really the same person. Age does horrible things to the human mind.
I have so many wonderful memories of her. Sitting on her lap while going for rides in the country, working in the garden (especially me planting pumpkins), the smell of her bacon in the morning, and so many more. When my mom first called me today, we both agreed that she'd had a good life, and for the most part, a happy life...not too many people can really say that, but she did.
The world seems a little emptier today, and she will truly be missed.
Monday, January 14, 2013
The Battle for Turtle Island release date
Look for more info as we get closer to the release date.
Sunday, January 06, 2013
Sam's Dot Publishing update
At the beginning of this year I became the Managing Editor for Sam's Dot Publishing, basically taking over the day to day running of the company, which is now owned by White Cat Publications. A lot of people have been wondering what will be different about Sam's Dot now that Tyree Campbell has moved on. The basic answer is...not much. All of the titles that Tyree had contracted will be published in the years to come, and I will eventually be opening back up for novel submissions, and I will be editing those, and we will be releasing those under the Sam's Dot name.
Obviously, my editorial focus will be slightly different from Tyree's, but you shouldn't notice a huge change. The biggest change I think anyone will notice is wider distribution, and that's a good thing.
I guess you could say, the more things change, the more they stay the same.
Obviously, my editorial focus will be slightly different from Tyree's, but you shouldn't notice a huge change. The biggest change I think anyone will notice is wider distribution, and that's a good thing.
I guess you could say, the more things change, the more they stay the same.
Tuesday, January 01, 2013
Monday, December 31, 2012
Goodbye 2012!
Another year has come and gone, and like many other years, this one certainly had its up and downs. The biggest downs would have to have been Rebecca being held up at the end of January, and then some bastard stealing our tax check.
Although those were some low lows, I think the highs made up for it. Our oldest started middle school, and even though she already has some of the teen angst going on (a couple of years early), she's still doing great. Our middle daughter has moved on to second grade, and she's more or less excelling...if we could just get her to do her homework. And of course the youngest has grown up so much. At the beginning of the year, she was barely walking and could say a few words. Now she's strolling around everywhere, counting to 11, learning her ABC's, using four and five word sentences, and of course loving Star Wars and Babylon 5. Another positive on a personal level was my accepting a promotion at work. Although it's leaving me exhausted, we're bringing in some extra money, and that's always a good thing.
On a professional level, it was also up and down. March saw the release of my third novel, A Problem in Translation and I also finished the initial drafts of a new RPG. The biggest down would be that I didn't do anywhere near enough writing this year. I do have a new story coming out in an anthology early next year, and I'm certainly hoping to do more writing in 2013.
All in all, I'm glad to be saying goodbye to 2012. The stress from the robbery has kind of haunted everything, and once we get past the one year anniversary, I think everything will start looking up.
Although those were some low lows, I think the highs made up for it. Our oldest started middle school, and even though she already has some of the teen angst going on (a couple of years early), she's still doing great. Our middle daughter has moved on to second grade, and she's more or less excelling...if we could just get her to do her homework. And of course the youngest has grown up so much. At the beginning of the year, she was barely walking and could say a few words. Now she's strolling around everywhere, counting to 11, learning her ABC's, using four and five word sentences, and of course loving Star Wars and Babylon 5. Another positive on a personal level was my accepting a promotion at work. Although it's leaving me exhausted, we're bringing in some extra money, and that's always a good thing.
On a professional level, it was also up and down. March saw the release of my third novel, A Problem in Translation and I also finished the initial drafts of a new RPG. The biggest down would be that I didn't do anywhere near enough writing this year. I do have a new story coming out in an anthology early next year, and I'm certainly hoping to do more writing in 2013.
All in all, I'm glad to be saying goodbye to 2012. The stress from the robbery has kind of haunted everything, and once we get past the one year anniversary, I think everything will start looking up.
Wednesday, December 26, 2012
Christmas 2012
Another Christmas has come and gone. I've always loved Christmas. I love the lights, and I love the music...well, most of the music. And now that I have kids, I love to watch them open gifts on Christmas morning. I, of course, don't celebrate Christmas as the birth of Christ, but rather as a time to reflect on the year's events, and to spend time with friends and family.
Although I have a great family with my wife and kids, I have to admit that I miss my mom, dad, brothers, and sister...as they're all spread across the country, so we rarely see each other, and I can't even remember the last time I saw any of them on Christmas. This year was especially bittersweet, as I know that any day now my maternal grandmother, and the last of my grandparents, will probably pass away.
Still, with all of the mixed emotions, I have to admit that it was a great Christmas, especially when Rebecca realized that the BIG gift I'd been teasing her about was Bon Jovi tickets...she's a HUGE fan.
I hope all of you had a great whatever holiday you celebrate.
Although I have a great family with my wife and kids, I have to admit that I miss my mom, dad, brothers, and sister...as they're all spread across the country, so we rarely see each other, and I can't even remember the last time I saw any of them on Christmas. This year was especially bittersweet, as I know that any day now my maternal grandmother, and the last of my grandparents, will probably pass away.
Still, with all of the mixed emotions, I have to admit that it was a great Christmas, especially when Rebecca realized that the BIG gift I'd been teasing her about was Bon Jovi tickets...she's a HUGE fan.
I hope all of you had a great whatever holiday you celebrate.
Saturday, December 22, 2012
Another Apocalypse has come and gone
Eventually people will learn that the end of the world can't really be predicted, except possibly with science. In all honesty, this Apocalypse seemed even sillier than most of the ones in the past. I'm sure some people are feeling foolish today, although they're probably trying to justify why they were wrong...that's what always seems to happen.
On another note, the events in my novel The Opium of the People were supposed to have been set up by a near miss with a comet on Dec. 21, 2012. I'm very happy to say that I was not prophetic. The idea of living in a world like the one I created in the novel would make me wish for the end of the world.
On another note, the events in my novel The Opium of the People were supposed to have been set up by a near miss with a comet on Dec. 21, 2012. I'm very happy to say that I was not prophetic. The idea of living in a world like the one I created in the novel would make me wish for the end of the world.
Sunday, December 09, 2012
Come on people
We just got through all of the election nonsense, which I thought had brought out the worst in people, but the holidays seem to make people behave in some crazy ways. I'm not talking about the belligerent customers you have to deal with while shopping. I'm talking about the whole Happy Holidays vs. Merry Christmas nonsense.
Christians feel that there's an attack on Christmas because non-Christians and Atheists want to use Happy Holidays because, well, they don't believe in Christ. And non-Christians and Atheists don't want to be told Merry Christmas because, well, they don't believe in Christ.
To me, it's all insanity. Why do we have to spend so much time looking into the underlying meaning of what someone is trying to say, rather than accepting the intent behind the message, which is usually, hey, hope you have a great day and life. We're so caught up in distrusting people that we don't realize that people are just trying to be nice. Why not let them be nice?
I, myself, am a staunch Atheist. I don't feel like maybe there's a God, no, I don't believe at all. But if you believe in God, and you want to wish me a Merry Christmas, then by all means, go ahead, and I'll wish you one too. If I do something nice for someone, and they say God Bless You. I don't look at it as them trying to push their religion on me. No, I look at it as them thanking me in their own way. Even if I don't agree with their belief system, it doesn't mean that I can't accept the sentiment of gratitude.
Everyone needs to loosen up and stop worrying about what someone might mean by what they're saying. Yes, there are some people that are trying to push their beliefs on you, but the majority of people saying Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays are just trying to be nice. There's so little niceness left in the world, let's let them be nice and get over ourselves.
So, Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, or Happy Whatever You Want to Believe and Celebrate. I hope whatever you believe in and celebrate at this time of year will bring you a great deal of happiness.
Christians feel that there's an attack on Christmas because non-Christians and Atheists want to use Happy Holidays because, well, they don't believe in Christ. And non-Christians and Atheists don't want to be told Merry Christmas because, well, they don't believe in Christ.
To me, it's all insanity. Why do we have to spend so much time looking into the underlying meaning of what someone is trying to say, rather than accepting the intent behind the message, which is usually, hey, hope you have a great day and life. We're so caught up in distrusting people that we don't realize that people are just trying to be nice. Why not let them be nice?
I, myself, am a staunch Atheist. I don't feel like maybe there's a God, no, I don't believe at all. But if you believe in God, and you want to wish me a Merry Christmas, then by all means, go ahead, and I'll wish you one too. If I do something nice for someone, and they say God Bless You. I don't look at it as them trying to push their religion on me. No, I look at it as them thanking me in their own way. Even if I don't agree with their belief system, it doesn't mean that I can't accept the sentiment of gratitude.
Everyone needs to loosen up and stop worrying about what someone might mean by what they're saying. Yes, there are some people that are trying to push their beliefs on you, but the majority of people saying Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays are just trying to be nice. There's so little niceness left in the world, let's let them be nice and get over ourselves.
So, Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, or Happy Whatever You Want to Believe and Celebrate. I hope whatever you believe in and celebrate at this time of year will bring you a great deal of happiness.
Saturday, December 01, 2012
Wednesday, November 28, 2012
I'm still around
Since taking this promotion, you've probably noticed a significant reduction in my blog posting. Well, I'm still around. I'm just trying to adjust to the extra hours and all that.
It was already tough juggling being a father of three kids, a husband, a writer, an editor, a game designer, and a part-time employee, but adding in those extra hours of going to full time is taking some getting used to. I've been overwhelmed before, so I'm sure I'll get used to this. Plus, I usually do better at things when it seems like I have too much to do.
So, that means you can probably expect more posting in the weeks to come as I get back up to speed.
It was already tough juggling being a father of three kids, a husband, a writer, an editor, a game designer, and a part-time employee, but adding in those extra hours of going to full time is taking some getting used to. I've been overwhelmed before, so I'm sure I'll get used to this. Plus, I usually do better at things when it seems like I have too much to do.
So, that means you can probably expect more posting in the weeks to come as I get back up to speed.
Wednesday, November 14, 2012
Jim Baker
My article about the founder of ProMart, (which became Sam's Dot) Jim Baker, has been posted on the White Cat website.
http://www.whitecatpublications.com/?p=3253
There are quite a few writers in the speculative fiction community that got their start with ProMart, so it was nice to get a chance to write the article, as I don't think we should ever forget him or his vision of the future.
http://www.whitecatpublications.com/?p=3253
There are quite a few writers in the speculative fiction community that got their start with ProMart, so it was nice to get a chance to write the article, as I don't think we should ever forget him or his vision of the future.
Sunday, November 11, 2012
I must be out of my mind
Anyone who knows me knows that I always have half a dozen projects going at once, and I always have ten million family things going on. It never seems like there's enough time to get anything done in my life, so I guess it's only logical that I would take a promotion at my "real" job. I'm now a full time supervisor.
Obviously I've lost whatever sanity I had left...
Obviously I've lost whatever sanity I had left...
Saturday, November 10, 2012
An Eternity in Limbo
No, it's not another political post, although it sounds like it could be.
Recently I mentioned that I'd finished a new story...well, that story is titled "An Eternity in Limbo" and it has been picked up for the A Kepler's Dozen anthology from Hadrosaur Productions. You can read about the anthology by going to http://davidleesummers.wordpress.com/2012/11/10/new-and-forthcoming-books-from-hadrosaur-productions/. The information about this anthology is towards the bottom of the post, but the whole thing is worth reading. Hadrosaur Productions puts out some great stuff!
I was invited to contribute to this anthology a while back, and I'm glad they decided that my story was worthy of the anthology.
Look for release information in the months to come.
Recently I mentioned that I'd finished a new story...well, that story is titled "An Eternity in Limbo" and it has been picked up for the A Kepler's Dozen anthology from Hadrosaur Productions. You can read about the anthology by going to http://davidleesummers.wordpress.com/2012/11/10/new-and-forthcoming-books-from-hadrosaur-productions/. The information about this anthology is towards the bottom of the post, but the whole thing is worth reading. Hadrosaur Productions puts out some great stuff!
I was invited to contribute to this anthology a while back, and I'm glad they decided that my story was worthy of the anthology.
Look for release information in the months to come.
Four more years
I had originally planned to post about my election views the day after the elections, but I was felled by a horrible virus that has had me fevered and weak and not able to do much, so I haven't been able to post. Maybe it was the universe's way of saying that no one really cares what my opinion is. Too bad.
So, after all the posturing and lies we now had a democratic president, a democratic senate, and a republican house. In other words, we're still in the same screwed-up position we were in before the election.
Don't get me wrong, gun to my head, forcing me to vote for one of the "two" candidates, I would have voted for Obama, but I don't necessarily think he was the best candidate. The plain and simple truth is that as long as we continue to allow ourselves to be governed by a two party system, we will forever be on our knees before the politicians and big business. Both of the "two" parties are in bed with big business, which leaves "We the People" at the mercy of big business.
In order to get from under the heels of corporations, we have to add a third, fourth, or even a fifth party to the process. In my opinion, there are two parties that right now could take on the dems and the repubs if people would get behind them. Those would be the Greens and the Libertarians. Neither party is going to get the backing of big business, because they don't agree with big business, so you won't see lots of TV ads. The networks are owned by corporations, so they're going to tell you that there are only two parties you can vote for, but it's not the case.
Politicians seem to have forgotten that it's OUR government, so let's take it back. In future elections, whether it's national or local, look at those third party candidates, you might actually find that they really do have YOUR best interests at heart. Vote for them. They may not win in the next few years, but we can build momentum, and we can take back the government from people who think they own it.
This is your choice!
So, after all the posturing and lies we now had a democratic president, a democratic senate, and a republican house. In other words, we're still in the same screwed-up position we were in before the election.
Don't get me wrong, gun to my head, forcing me to vote for one of the "two" candidates, I would have voted for Obama, but I don't necessarily think he was the best candidate. The plain and simple truth is that as long as we continue to allow ourselves to be governed by a two party system, we will forever be on our knees before the politicians and big business. Both of the "two" parties are in bed with big business, which leaves "We the People" at the mercy of big business.
In order to get from under the heels of corporations, we have to add a third, fourth, or even a fifth party to the process. In my opinion, there are two parties that right now could take on the dems and the repubs if people would get behind them. Those would be the Greens and the Libertarians. Neither party is going to get the backing of big business, because they don't agree with big business, so you won't see lots of TV ads. The networks are owned by corporations, so they're going to tell you that there are only two parties you can vote for, but it's not the case.
Politicians seem to have forgotten that it's OUR government, so let's take it back. In future elections, whether it's national or local, look at those third party candidates, you might actually find that they really do have YOUR best interests at heart. Vote for them. They may not win in the next few years, but we can build momentum, and we can take back the government from people who think they own it.
This is your choice!
Saturday, November 03, 2012
A new story
I finished the final draft on a new story today. It's been a long time since I've actually finished a new story, so this is a really good feeling. To make sure I didn't start second guessing myself, I immediately sent it off to try to find a new home.
Now...it's time to start on the next new story...
Now...it's time to start on the next new story...
Thursday, November 01, 2012
Friday, October 26, 2012
Con withdrawal
It's been five days since MileHiCon ended, and spending almost a week back in the "real" world makes me realize that I'm going through Con withdrawal. I wish it was within our means to do more cons.
Maybe I just need to start writing or editing more so I can move up to that Guest of Honor title...
Maybe I just need to start writing or editing more so I can move up to that Guest of Honor title...
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
Some writerly advice
As some of you may know, I'm the featured writer at Word Weavers this week, and I promised them a blog for Tuesday, so I thought I'd dedicate the entry to some of the things I've learned as a writer and an editor over the years. Some of it is common sense, and I'm sure most writers already know this stuff, but you never know, you might learn something new.
A writer should always try to write every day. It's not always easy, and I'm certainly guilty of not doing this anymore. I used to write almost every day, but now that I'm married and have kids, it's not as easy. As the little one gets older, I imagine it will get easier.
Always follow guidelines. This one may seem pretty obvious, but you'd be surprised by how many people do not follow guidelines. None of the magazines that I edit publish horror, and yet I get at least one horror submission every month.
Network, network, network. In the computer age, every writer needs to network with other writers, and most certainly with readers. Be sure to have a Facebook page, since that's where the majority of people are hanging out these days. When that changes in a couple of years (remember MySpace), move along with the change, and keep meeting new people.
If you're a genre writer, go to Cons. Some people are intimidated by cons, because let's face it, some of the fans can be a bit intense, but they are fans, and if you can get them reading your work, and liking it, they'll be fans forever. Cons are also a great way to meet other writers, and to talk face to face with editors. I'm approached by at least a dozen people at every con wanting to talk about Sam's Dot. You can really learn a lot at a Con.
Be open to criticism. Even people who don't like your work might be able to give you some good pointers on how to improve. Now, I'm obviously not talking about the haters out there, but people that have genuine reasons for not liking your work can improve your writing skills. Yes, you most certainly have to have thick skin, but no matter how good of a writer you are (or you think you are), someone is not going to like your work.
Most important advice of all...persevere. I have seen a lot of truly talented writers that couldn't take the rejection of writing, and gave up because of it. And I've seen a lot writers who didn't have much talent to start with, but continued to write and submit no matter what. After years, these writers developed into true talents because they kept practicing and they learned from their mistakes.
Not sure if any of this helps, but I thought I'd put it out there for anyone that is interested.
A writer should always try to write every day. It's not always easy, and I'm certainly guilty of not doing this anymore. I used to write almost every day, but now that I'm married and have kids, it's not as easy. As the little one gets older, I imagine it will get easier.
Always follow guidelines. This one may seem pretty obvious, but you'd be surprised by how many people do not follow guidelines. None of the magazines that I edit publish horror, and yet I get at least one horror submission every month.
Network, network, network. In the computer age, every writer needs to network with other writers, and most certainly with readers. Be sure to have a Facebook page, since that's where the majority of people are hanging out these days. When that changes in a couple of years (remember MySpace), move along with the change, and keep meeting new people.
If you're a genre writer, go to Cons. Some people are intimidated by cons, because let's face it, some of the fans can be a bit intense, but they are fans, and if you can get them reading your work, and liking it, they'll be fans forever. Cons are also a great way to meet other writers, and to talk face to face with editors. I'm approached by at least a dozen people at every con wanting to talk about Sam's Dot. You can really learn a lot at a Con.
Be open to criticism. Even people who don't like your work might be able to give you some good pointers on how to improve. Now, I'm obviously not talking about the haters out there, but people that have genuine reasons for not liking your work can improve your writing skills. Yes, you most certainly have to have thick skin, but no matter how good of a writer you are (or you think you are), someone is not going to like your work.
Most important advice of all...persevere. I have seen a lot of truly talented writers that couldn't take the rejection of writing, and gave up because of it. And I've seen a lot writers who didn't have much talent to start with, but continued to write and submit no matter what. After years, these writers developed into true talents because they kept practicing and they learned from their mistakes.
Not sure if any of this helps, but I thought I'd put it out there for anyone that is interested.
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